On Older Men…

So if you are dating an older guy, chances are he is not just a normal dude – to put it bluntly, he’s either a player or a loser. Worse, he could be carrying baggage – i.e. divorced or divorced WITH kids. Having said all that you might be surprised to hear that I currently prefer older guys. Why? Well, it has a lot to do with where I am in my own personal life and my personality.

One, I’m not really ready to settle down yet so I don’t mind a little challenge. I feel that I can tame those players enough to date them, but I’m not a fool to think that I could make them want to get married. And two, my personality is such that I can deal with non-exclusive dating but I can’t deal with talking to people who just doesn’t have enough experience to understand certain life concepts … and this latter trait more often than not simply comes with age.

As for future predictions, I think that as I get older I will become more and more age neutral. Now, I will leave you with some wise words from my legal counselor and friend, which I second:“I have personal prejudices against older guys because only in New York is it ok to find men of your dad’s age hanging out in clubs. One thing that I would like to say to young women –‘do not go for older guys only because they have achieved a lot and have lots of money for the simple reason that in NYC, you will find younger guys who have achieved a lot and have lots of money. They are just harder to catch, but well worth the fishing. That’s the beauty of NY — lots of young, cute men with huge bank accounts. So there’s no need to date an older man unless you are being lazy about it.”